Allah Almighty God's Commanded 32-Page Open Letter of January 3, 1987... To All SUBUD Brothers and Sisters Throughout The SUBUD World - Continued... with Part XVI ... Monday 1/17/11...

Whenever a wife comes to the Helpers... unhappy in her marriage... they should not blithely advise her to "stick it out"... and only Test... how she should be towards her husband... 


They should look mainly... to how sincere... and submissive... her husband is... in his Worship of THE ONE ALLAH ALMIGHTY GOD... for it is the husband's GOD-Willed duty... to make his wife happy... through his Inner Guidance... giving her not what she wants... from her heart... but what she truly needs... in order to help her become the noble woman... GOD Intends her to be...


It is only by the example of the husband's depth of sincere... patient... submissive surrender... to his CREATOR... always Allowing HIM to Guide the marriage... in HIS Infinite Wisdom... that his wife will grow Spiritually... and by the same token... so will he...


It is truly the only real reason... for her to stay married to him...  


As BAPAK has told us... only Jiwa to Jiwa marriages... will survive and last... with mutual Spiritual Growth and Development... - all other types of unions... such as based on sexual... or mental compatibility... are doomed to failure... eventually...


Perhaps that is why... this soul... as Grazia... Was Commanded by her HEAVENLY fATHER... to divorce her alcoholic husband... after only three years... because when he Received... in his Latihan... one night... that He Would No Longer Have A Desire For Alcohol...  rather than give up alcohol... which he was addicted to... ever since he was seventeen... he gave up SUBUD... and the Latihan instead...! 


(In copying this Open Letter.. today... January 17th 2011...Muftiah is being Guided to share soon... on her MUFTIAH blog... via Link : 


msubud.blogspot.com  


her awesome... Spiritual Experience... when... after her husband... Rene... died of hepatitis... a year after she divorced him... at the young age of 47... about five years later... she was Taken to Heaven... Given a Document of Release for him... and Flew down to Hell... to rescue him...!)


It is far better to seek Help... from The Highest Source... than going to an "unpurified" psychiatrist... psycho-analyst... or marriage counselor... who can only give advice from his/her "impure" heart... and cleverness of their minds... because... in all probability... their Inner Selves... are dormant... 


BAPAK's Helpers should encourage the Members... whose Kejiwaan they are responsible for... not to depend too much on them - remind them... that they have the same wavelength... to their HEAVENLY FATHER... ALLAH ALMIGHTY GOD... as you have... 


It is wisest... to gently urge them... to seek their own Inner Guidance... more than relying on you... to do it for them... 


Thus BAPAK's Helpers... will be helping the Members... to have a closer relationship... with their CREATOR... ALLAH ALMIGHTY GOD... than with their Helpers... and it will also help prevent Helpers... from feeling... and becoming Spiritually superior... and arrogant...


Whenever a person interested to know about SUBUD... is invited y the Helpers... to meet with them... in order to be the best representatives of BAPAK... in helping him to fulfill his Holy Mission on earth...which is to awaken the Jiwa (Inner self) of mankind... here on earth... they should take their duty very seriously... in explaining the Aims & Purposes of SUBUD... and refrain from chatting aimlessly...


Helpers will leave a far more lasting impression... if they are prepared beforehand... sitting in a quiet state... remaining close to their Jiwa... open... empty... and still... in order to Receive what to say to the party... according to the individual's particular nature... character... and personality...


For instance... if the person has an emotional nature... character... and personality... then the Helpers will be able to Receive... the right thing to say... to satisfy his/her heart...  


Likewise... if the person is intellectually inclined... then the Helpers will be able to Receive... the right thing to say... to satisfy his/her mind.... 


And if... Praise ALLAH... the person is Spiritual by nature... character... and personality... then the Helpers will be able to Receive... the right thing to say... to satisfy his/her Spirit... 


(Allah Almighty God's Commanded 32-Page Open Letter of January 3, 1987... To All SUBUD Brothers and Sisters Throughout The SUBUD World  -  to be Continued... with  Part  XVII  ... Insha Allah... God Willing... Thursday 1/20/11...)